As Valentine’s Day approaches, it is common for individuals, particularly those who are single, to feel lonely. It is often that social media intensifies celebrating this day with romantic gestures. This creates an unsettling sense of exclusion and self-doubt, leading to questions of value and desirability. It is essential to remember that even in the absence of a romantic partner, it is not the end of the world.
Many are led to accept that the path to contentment is paved with romantic involvement, and that being single is dull or lacking excitement. Fulfillment, however, does not involve another person. True happiness and completion do not hinge upon a relationship status; anyone can find joy in their own company. Learning the lesson of self-sufficiency is valuable because you are the only person guaranteed to be by your side in the end. The majority of those reading this are rather young; therefore, recognize the stretch of life that lies ahead of you, ripe with several possibilities and opportunities yet to be explored and appreciated. Take this time to focus on self-development without the pressure of seeking a significant other. Make your well-being your responsibility instead of placing it in the hands of others. It is important to fill your cup completely first and then allow relationships to add to it. Not having a relationship is the reason your cup is only full. Wrap yourself with loving family and friends who uplift your spirit; invest in personal goals and dreams.
While relationships can bring companionship, they can just as easily follow with heartache and stress. In all human connections, the closest friends or partners depart, passing on lessons that shape you. Forming and maintaining a bond takes time and effort. Meeting someone whom you believe is “the one” is not always a fact. The reality is that there could be someone else waiting for you, someone who may align better with your path in the future.
Valentine’s Day has the potential to be more than the traditional expectations associated with it. So what if you do not get chocolates or a bouquet of roses? This day can evolve into a celebration of love in all forms either romantic or platonic. It is a prime opportunity to treat yourself a little kinder, gather with loved ones or watch a favorite romantic comedy. There are countless alternatives to busy yourself instead of grieving a lover. Each person has the power to redefine what a day can mean for them, even if that means that Feb. 14 is a regular day in the year.
