Formal, spinsters and prom. To some, these words conjure an automatic reaction of joy and excitement; yet to others, these words bring about immediate dread.

Formal can be a great way to spend time with friends, to get dressed up and enjoy the party. Yet, more often than not, this night seems to only bring on an immense amount of stress to its participants.

This stress begins months in advance as LHS students must find the perfect supplies for their special night. Dresses, shoes, accessories, hair styles, makeup, dates, groups etc etc. I could list 100 more details that run through their minds. Each item must fit into their delicate and detailed plan for the “best formal ever.”

Besides finding their own items, is coordinating with a group. Accommodating for 15 couples is no small feat. Each person takes a different view on how the night should go, making it even more stressful to plan. Where should we take pictures? Where should we eat? Who can drive? When should we get to the dance? How long should we stay? What are we doing after? How late are we staying out? A million questions must be answered, and from those answers come a million more chores to finish.

When did a night created for fun and dancing turn into a chore?

What we all need is some perspective. In the long run, how important is this single night in the scope of all our high school years? These few hours won’t matter in a few days, months or years. What really matters are the memories made with best friends, not the name brand dress you wore. Just have fun, and dance the night away.